and this ad is very misleading because it changing the date of their own debate for obama. he is playing the woman card. first he played it with health care. now he is playing it with salaries. and in this case this ad is very misleading because it is not comparing jobs apple to apples when it comes to men and women. melissa: you want to respond to that, mary ann? >> yeah. look, if you look at the facts, and look at census data it absolutely does it. here's why it matters. when women make less, at some point in their life they have to support themselves. okay? either because they're single by choice, divorced or their spouse dies. so they're unable to support them service and their loved ones better. the less you make every year the less in retirement, less in social security, all compounds in the negative. >> census official said they don't even have the data, means to make this comparison. this is why this ad is very misleading. it is misleading the american people. melissa: wait. i slow you both down for one second. everybody can kind of find data to prove what they want